Born and raised in North Carolina, Grayam grew up in the foothills of the Appalachian Mountains. He graduated from Appalachian State University with a Bachelor of Science in Communication Studies and a Minor in Marketing. Grayam has always had a true passion for helping people and serving his community. He began his career in social work, providing direct care for those with developmental and temperament disabilities. After moving to Charlotte, Grayam worked as a real estate agent for two years. Grayam decided to begin a career with NC Farm Bureau after he and his wife, Brooke, had their first child in January of 2023. He now lives with his family in Denver, NC. Grayam enjoys spending his free time with his family and friends and playing an occasional round of golf at Verdict Ridge in Denver.